The family is doing well, considering. It is the last phone call I thought I would ever receive. The toughest part is not being able to say goodbye. She was at peace with everyone in our family and everyone she knew, my mom pretty much got along with anyone. I estimate around 500 to 600 people attended her wake alone, that was the cheeriest part of my week just knowing how many people knew her and loved her.
She was the hardest working person I know, after our dad was disabled in 1975 she took over raising us and financially supporting us. When SC just got old to her with little opportunity, she moved our family of 6 to Cape Cod.
Quilting was her passion, and she was steadily turning it into something more. She taught others quilting for the last several years as a side gig and was selling her works at the quilt shop as well. She was well known in the area for quilting and arts and crafts, and had a dedicated sewing room in every house we ever lived in. In fact, I believe she picked houses to live in that would definitely accomodate her love of quilting and sewing.
We inspired each other and I am proud of that. I see a connection between her passion for sewing and my passion for recordng, and the first thing I started doing when we moved into our new house here was to start converting a big room for my studio. She was talking to me about starting her own business for selling arts and crafts products after my partner and I started our business and I felt she was inspired by me somehow to follow that dream of something she actually cared about other than the day job grind.
My mom was 56 and aside from possible accidents I always thought I would be in my 60's and hanging out with my mom. Her father is 87 and mother 82, both in fine health. Aside from accidents, she had longevity going for her.
I just got home tonight and realized I haven't really told anybody in the forums. I have been unavailable for quite some time and have received some emails asking me why.
My brother and two sisters are all handling it pretty well also because we have each other. I just kept saying while we were all together "I'm glad she had so many of us".
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